Celebrating a Village of Dreams

28 Aug

 

There’s an African proverb that says, “It takes a village to raise a child.”

As any business owner will tell you, this is also true of building a business. For even those of us who call ourselves solopreneurs have people in our lives, both personally and professionally, who’ve helped us raise this child we call our work.Untitled: photo credit - David Wallace

From the people you hire to help with the day-to-day tasks to the uncomplaining spouses and friends there to pick up the tired pieces, knowing those people have your back makes it so much more doable.

Especially when those same people remind you of your vision when you falter.

Enter the virtual village.

For me, it’s people I’ve connected with online, people who go out of their way to be there with a kind word or a quick idea, usually at just the right moment.

And it makes no difference that I’ve not met them in person.

Somehow through the magic of the interwebs, distance falls away and connection draws us together. Don’t ask me to explain it further because I can’t. I can only tell you the difference having these people in my life has made to my life and business.

When I think back to the early days of my business, I was determined to do it on my own. Firstly, my independant streak was running on turbo charge, and secondly, it was near impossible for me to ask for help back then.

The thing I didn’t realize however, was the impact of going it alone, for the costs were great, often wreaking havoc with my well-being. But like many starting out, I was naive, never dreaming I’d have to concern myself with issues like self-care.

Now I know, and I treasure this community that I’ve wondrously gathered around me.

This village is the keeper of dreams, and as such deserves acknowledgement and appreciation. For without these people, the journey would not be nearly as inspiring, productive or fun.

 

Celebrating a Village of Dreams:

Jenny Bones, the word witch who’s become the collaborator I once imagined. My partner in crime at the Campfire Circles and friend beyond measure in life.

Farnoosh Brock, friend and fireball of energy, from health to career transition, she’s got something for you. I count her as the one who got through my resistance to green juicing, a feat for which I am truly grateful!

Alejandro Reyes, IT guru extraordinaire who responds to my endless questions and concerns with so much patience and humour, I am sure he deserves an award of some kind.

Cigdem Kobu, the most wonderful connector I’ve ever met. What started out as an online friendship has become a sisterhood of the soul and I look forward to our calls days in advance.

Evan Austin, a newcomer to the village, and talented graphic artist who came to the rescue with the perfect images for our upcoming Back-to-School for Coaches.

The Campers (collectively and individually), who started out as my perfect people and transformed into friends, colleagues and so much more in the span of 3 months. Carol, Ellen, Sarah, Lynn, Joanna, and Nancy – y’all make me pulse with gratitude.

Amanda Farough, my local playmate whose mad designing skills make people dance with delight. I’m lucky though, for I count her as a friend who’s close enough to hug!

Rita Chand, the one I count on to remind me to own my awesome on those days I forget. Truly, this woman is a gift.

I could go on as I am blessed to have many more such amazing people in my life.

You’ve got your own village, I’m sure of it.

But when was the last time you shared your appreciation?

 

Over to you:

Who are your go-to folks, the ones you can always count on?

Count your blessings and send them some love today!

 


Word Carnivals monthly blogging event

This post is part of the August 2012 Word Carnival — a monthly group blogging event specifically for small business owners. This month’s topic, “It Takes a Village: Small Biz Success and the Power of Community.”

Check out the rest of the fabulous carney work here:  Word Carnivals  

 

38 comments
NicoleFende
NicoleFende

Sandi way to rock the community gratitude.  At first working as an entrepreneur was quite lonely for me, until I built (or got invited into) a really cool virtual village.  I'm glad you're part of my village - passing you a virtual cup of coffee and a big smile of thanks.

WTFMarketing
WTFMarketing

I remember one instance on Twitter where a local woman had been stranded at home (she had broken her leg and was unable to leave the house, didn't have a ride of her own, and was under medication so she couldn't drive herself). She needed to go to the pharmacy for some antiseizure medication but nobody could take her, not even the city of Fort Collins which has services for this type of situation.

She was complaining quite loudly on Twitter, and I just happen to find one of her posts. I ended up running to the pharmacy to get her antiseizure medication to take it to her, having never met this woman before in person.

The power of community is that - it only takes a very weak tie for us to discover one another. The tools exist to break down barriers and make it easier for us to understand and connect with one another.

I've heard of similar stories around the web and around my own community - it's just a testament to the fact that people really do still care about each other, even if things are so divided politically.

Finding and connecting with stronger ties is even better - and I can name off at least a hundred people I'd love to connect with in person after having met them online!

Great post!

clarestweets
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Its so cool to see how our Carnie clan can think alike and yet offer a unique view. Here Sandi names  her community with gratitude that is worth modeling for all of us and is exactly what Sharon Hurley Hall recommended in her post! 

Creative Katrina
Creative Katrina

Ahhhhh, self-care. The one thing EVERY entrepreneur needs to learn sooner or later or face complete burn out. I love how you personally thank such important people in your life -- I'm sure they feel honored and loved, and you just released a huge bowl of gratitude into the universe, so thank you : ) You are a living example of how we can express love and value to our own little village. 

Sandi Amorim
Sandi Amorim moderator

@Creative Katrina  Thanks for those kind words Katrina. Seems like now, more than ever, I am so conscious of the amazing people I've connected with online. As I said in another comment, I find it magical that we're able to connect this way, often without meeting or even talking. My little village is precious so I've got to take care of it :) 

Latest blog post: Rise Up and Choose

CarolLynnRivera
CarolLynnRivera

I don't know most of the people you mentioned but I admit I got a little teary-eyed with all the gratitude! It's so important to be grateful to the people who support us on our journeys. There are so many people I bet we hardly ever think about but imagine if even one of them was missing. I enjoyed reading through your list and definitely have to go thank a few people of my own.

Sandi Amorim
Sandi Amorim moderator

@CarolLynnRivera So glad it got you thinking about your own village! I could have gone on and on with my list. By the time I wrapped up the post I was oozing gratitude :) 

Latest blog post: Rise Up and Choose

SHurleyHall
SHurleyHall

I've always loved that proverb, Sandi. My virtual village includes the carnies and a few people who started their blogging journey at the same time as I did. They have all contributed to my success. 

Sandi Amorim
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@SHurleyHall I've noticed more and more the past year that my virtual village is just as powerful (sometimes more!) as any offline community! Hard to understand at times, but I love the mystery of it :) 

Latest blog post: Rise Up and Choose

tsilvestre
tsilvestre

That was a beautiful tribute, Sandi! We carnies are lucky to have you in our little village, too. xoxo

Carol Hess
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I love that I don't know what life has in store for me around the corner.  Who knew that taking on a blogging challenge (reluctantly I might add) would lead to a professional connection that turned into a treasured friendship?  My business wouldn't be where it is today, Sandi, without you (and Jenny and the S'mores Campers).  My thinking wouldn't be as expansive, and my dreams wouldn't be as large.  It does take a village to raise a business. It also takes a village to raise the visionary behind the business.  Thank you for being you and doing your work so brilliantly and beautifully.

Sandi Amorim
Sandi Amorim moderator

@Carol Hess Love that you're embracing the unknown! That's still something most people resist, and yet...that is where the magic lives. 

Latest blog post: Rise Up and Choose

Carol Hess
Carol Hess

@Sandi Amorim @Carol Hess Exactly!  The magic does indeed live in the unknown.  That's where there's enough space for the Divine to really come in and do its thing.  If we have to control and know everything, then it sucks the magic and miracles right out of life.

Ellen Berg
Ellen Berg

I'm so honored and blessed to be a part of your village.  Working with you and Jenny in S'mores this summer reminded me how important community is--and how much I've been missing it.  When you find your people, you find yourself.  Thank you for creating the sort of community where people can grow, risk, share and be their most awesome.  

Carol Hess
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@Ellen Berg "When you find your people, you find yourself."  As usual, Ellen, you've said it brilliantly and beautifully. 

LynnHess
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Your humility and compassion and love know no bounds, do they, Sandi???  I love how you are spreading the love.  That's what it's all about!!

It IS amazing how online relationships can nurture and feed the soul.  It's easy for some to pooh-pooh such "fake" connections -- but they don't feel fake to me AT ALL.  As a matter of fact, there's something so very real about connecting with the people who GET you!  I could search my whole town and find a few....but, online, I get to run into them all day long!

I'm so grateful to have met you and become a little part of your world (and, by extension, the worlds of many of the incredible people you've mentioned here!). 

Sandi Amorim
Sandi Amorim moderator

@LynnHess It is amazing, and I still often find myself wondering at the magic of it. Some days it even seems the connections run deeper without the distraction of the day-to-day world. I don't have the answer, but I sure appreciate the outcome! 

Carol Hess
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@Sandi Amorim @LynnHess I used to be one of those pooh-poohers Lynn is talking about, and then I became a believer in the reality of the depth of on-line connections and the power of on-line villages.  You're right, Sandi.  It is magical.  For me, it even feels like the Divine is involved because I am seeing lives changed every day, mine included.

Sabrina at MyMiBoSo
Sabrina at MyMiBoSo

Such a beautiful outpouring of love Sandi!My village shout-outs: You and @yourgreatlifetv for supporting me as I transitioned from a casual blogger to spreading my message and stepping into my gifts in a bigger way as a coach@InnerLightTG for inspiring me with her ability to show her vulnerability just as much as she shows her strength...and for being a ridiculously supportive and generous friend to boot@ManifestYogaJen for reminding me how to laugh on my yoga mat@rcbjornson and @OrganicForLife for sharing their greatness with me and allowing me to remind them of it when they forget

@jaclynmullen for being the best damn accountability buddy a gal could ask for

...and SO MANY MORE :)Thanks for this opportunity to share the love Sandi!

SandyMc
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Wow Jenny, what a wonderful way to thank the people in your life who have contributed to your village of dreams.  That is the stuff of a true tribe leader. Someone who knows it is amazing what can be accomplished if no one takes the credit, (thank you President Truman), but is prepared to acknowledge, cherish and reward those who contribute to it.

Awesome.  So exciting to be involved in this community of clanmakers!

JennyBBones
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My favorite partner in crime and one of my dearest friends, nobody knows how to build a village quite like you do, Sandi. I mean holy cow, look at that list of awesomes! I'm humbled to be included. 

LolaSpeaking
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SANDI! You made me cry. I'm so honoured to be a part of this amazing list. Thank you for including me and for the acknowledgement. It is my great pleasure to be that person for you.  Let's face it.  You're pretty kick ass yourself.  (Yes that's right.  I didn't even put in any **)! :) Love you! xo

EnsoJourney
EnsoJourney

It's both and honor and a pleasure to help you my dear Sandi!

Without doubt, I have a lot of fun working on the back end of Deva Coaching and I'm truly happy to continue doing it. :)

Thank you for the opportunity to help you run and grow your business. :)

JennyBBones
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@EnsoJourney Cookies. That is all.

EnsoJourney
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 @JennyBBones @EnsoJourney Ohhh, cookies, I want cookies @_@

JennyBBones
JennyBBones

@EnsoJourney, I totally thought she'd have cookies somewhere in the post. Luckily, I brought along my spare supply of double fudge mocha chip cookies. You can haz!