Weep and Set Yourself Free

27 Jan

 

What is it you want to change?
Your hair, your face, your body?
Why?

For God is in love with all those things
and he might weep when they are gone.

~ St. Catherine of Sienna

Dr. Sun Yat Sen garden, Vancouver, BC

Weep…

for what you’ve judged
and  made so very wrong.

Weep…

for all that you’ve lost,
that can never be regained.

Weep…

let go, and
release what’s been held.

Allow what is,
and accept what is not.

Weep…

forgive,
and set yourself free.

 

 

* A Grace Note

 

18 comments
Vicky White
Vicky White

Love this Sandi - tears are another way of detoxing too...emotions but also our tears are one way toxins leave our body.  Feel so good too.

Carol Hess
Carol Hess

"Willow, weep for me."  I was very drawn to weeping willow trees when I was a child.  It felt magical to sit under one.  I suspect it still does.  There were years and years when I wasn't able to weep.  I'm so glad I can now.  Tears tell me my heart is open.  A beautiful poem, Sandi. 

ElleSommer
ElleSommer

Lovely Sandi - I've noticed being more willing to weep at things that touch my heart.  Great quote and poem too.  I shall remember this.

Love Elle

xoxo

Sandra Pawula
Sandra Pawula

What a powerful quote from St. Catherine of Sienna!  And powerful poem from you as well.

Sandi Amorim
Sandi Amorim moderator

@Sandra Pawula Thanks so much Sandra. I found the quote in a journal from a couple of years ago and had just recently taken the photo of the weeping willow. Seemed serendipitous :)

Vidya Sury
Vidya Sury

Hugs, Sandi. Powerful and short. Weeping is a great release, not to mention good for the eyes. :D

Sandi Amorim
Sandi Amorim moderator

@Vidya Sury LOL I never thought of that Vidya! My eyes need a good cleaning now and then :) 

Ellen Berg
Ellen Berg

Loving this.  Yes, weep as a way of letting go of it all.  I may have to start scheduling cries in my planner again.  :)

Sandi Amorim
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@Ellen Berg Scheduling cries...what a concept! Also, just letting it out as it shows up. I've noticed tears sneaking up on me recently and in the past I would have kept them in at all costs. Now? I let them out, I smile at them, I wonder what they're here to tell me. And there's something about the word weep that really appeals to me, quite a different feeling from cry, you know? 

Ellen Berg
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@Sandi Amorim @Ellen Berg The idea of scheduling cries came up because, in my job, I just can't let it out in the moment.  Not in front of children, and certainly not in front of adolescents.  (Excluding Big Deal things.  I cried when I was reading Of Mice and Men aloud...a couple of times.  Cried when one of my former students committed suicide.  That sort of stuff.)

In any case, I was finding I never cried those tears unless I put them on the schedule.  I know it sounds strange, but it's been a really healthy practice for me.  

The summer I had to put my most special cat down, though, I wept all the time.  Didn't judge the tears, just let them come.  Weeping cleans you out.